Chicago, IL

Speed dating and singles events in Chicago

Meet IRL runs curated speed dating across Chicago in narrow age bands, typically 25-32, 28-36 and 35-50, plus sapphic nights and rooftop singles mixers. Formats vary more than most markets, including bookstore speed dating and singles trivia.

Where events happen in Chicago

Recent and upcoming Chicago events have been hosted at Midwest Coast Brewing Company, Solemn Oath Brewery Still Life, Fatpour Wicker Park: Ultimate Chicago Sports Bar, Way Out, Passages Wine and Books . Operators pick rooms that are big enough to run rotations but small enough that you can still hear the person across the table.

Recently held in Chicago

A sense of what runs here regularly. These dates have passed, but most of them come back around.

Singles events in Chicago: common questions

What kinds of singles events run in Chicago?
Meet IRL runs curated speed dating across Chicago in narrow age bands, typically 25-32, 28-36 and 35-50, plus sapphic nights and rooftop singles mixers. Formats vary more than most markets, including bookstore speed dating and singles trivia.
How does speed dating actually work?
You get a series of short one-on-one conversations, usually four to eight minutes each, with a host keeping the room moving. Afterwards you mark who you would like to see again, and you are put in touch with anyone who marked you back. You never have to reject anyone to their face.
Do I need to bring anyone with me?
No. Most people arrive on their own, which is the whole point of a hosted format: the structure does the introducing so you are not standing at the edge of a room hoping someone talks to you.
Who runs these events?
Events in Chicago are run by independent local operators, currently Meet IRL. TNFM is the platform they use for ticketing and matching, so you buy from the operator running the night.