One engine pairs the right people across speed dating, friending, networking, mixers, group dinners, and pitch nights. Same playbook for every format, custom questions, custom rules, your brand on every screen.
Speed Dating 
Speed Friending 
Speed Networking 
Social Mixers 
Group Dinners 
Pitch Nights 
We are an event company first, a tech company second. TNFM handles the parts of a night that always go wrong: the paper matching, the lost passwords, the attendee who shows up forty minutes late. Singles night, founder dinner, pitch-a-friend evening, all the same engine underneath.
Our algorithm pairs attendees on the custom profile questions you design: orientation, deal-breakers, interests, industry, whatever makes your event work. Hard rule that every group needs a valid pair, with two-phase fill so nobody gets stranded.
Start, advance, and end rounds from one screen. Real-time guest list, table assignments pushed to every device, and built-in fixes for the curveballs: late check-ins, no-shows, lost phones.
After the event, attendees mark their interest in the people they met. Mutual matches get notified automatically, exchange details, on your timing, under your brand. Nobody leaves the venue wondering what happens next.
Speed Dating Curate love connections for every orientation. Customize the profile questions that actually matter, decide how many rounds to run, and let the engine handle the rest. Match notifications go out when you say so, usually an hour or two after the venue empties out.
Speed Friending It is like speed dating, but for friendships. Because making friends as an adult is hard. Pair people for a few rounds of real conversations with people they actually have something in common with, instead of an hour of small talk with whoever is next to them.
Speed Networking Networking events are usually a mess. Stuck in one conversation while the person you actually needed to meet is across the room. Tailor industry-specific questions and pair people accordingly. (Directors meet cinematographers and writers, not interns trying to pick their brain.)
Group Dinners Some of the best events are not speed-anything. They are a long table, a good menu, and the right six to ten people. The dinner engine seats guests by compatibility, captures dietary needs at sign-up, and pushes prompts to the table so the conversation never stalls between courses.
Pitch Nights The format that will not stop trending: friends pitch their single friends, the room votes, the highest-rated pitches go home with matches. Built-in pitch voting (five stars, unique voter ID), live rankings, and the same mutual-match exchange flow that powers our dating events.
Twelve of the things you would otherwise hack together with three different tools and a Google Sheet. There is more under the hood, you will see the rest on the call.
Multiple choice, ranking, open-ended. Tag which ones are matching-critical and which are informational only.
Auto-block incompatible pairings before they happen, no awkward fixes mid-event.
Auto-generate, then hand-tweak any pairing. The algorithm does the work, you keep the final call.
Pairings, rounds, table numbers pushed to every attendee's phone over WebSocket, no refresh needed.
Scan, you're in. Or use manual check-in. Geo-fencing available if you want extra-secure events.
Latecomers get slotted into pairings automatically, your existing rounds stay untouched.
Push prompts to phones mid-round to spark conversation. See how many attendees have answered each.
Mutual matches get notified, your timing, your branding. Attendees take private notes mid-event to remember the vibe.
Every person, which round, basic info, so attendees can reach out to who they actually wanted to.
Flags repeat offenders so you can apply policies, or just remember to put them on the waitlist next time.
Assign door-staff, group facilitators, or full-org admins. Each only sees what they need to.
The whole experience runs under your brand and your domain. Nobody sees TNFM, they see you.
We have onboarded people running their hundredth mixer and people running their first. Same platform, slightly different first conversation.
You know the format. You just want the chaos handled: check-in, pairings, match notifications, the whole loop, without giving up your voice. Easy migration; we run them every week.
Run clubs, supper clubs, alumni groups, faith communities. Matchmaking slides into what you are already doing. New revenue, same audience.
Pick your city, pick your audience, we hand you the tech. Exclusive territory licensing, hands-on onboarding while the program is still in early days. Claim your city before someone else does.
No multi-month integration. No setup fees. We have done this enough times to make onboarding boring on purpose.
Thirty minute call. Pick your city, pick your format, sign the contract. That is the whole step.
Your domain, your colors, your event flow. We wire it up. You walk into your first configuration session with everything already set.
We are on Slack with you through the first few events. You get a private network of operators across the country to swap ideas with. Exclusive territory means no competition, just collaboration.
More on the contact page. If yours isn't here, ask on the call.
Thirty minutes. We will show you the live console, the matching engine, and what your first event would look like under your brand.
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Social Mixers
Tired of mixers where nobody actually talks? Scorecard mixers let attendees check in, see their compatibility scores, and heart the people they are interested in. If both hearts go out, they get contact details. No more missed connections. The host has built-in prompts to keep conversations flowing.